How Big Is Too Big? Choosing the Right Cruise Ship for You

Since we started cruising, ships have gotten bigger… and bigger… and now, absolutely gigantic.

So which ship is right for you?

The answer really depends on how you like to cruise. Not all cruise experiences are the same, and ship size plays a huge role in what your vacation will feel like.

What to Consider Before You Book

Before choosing a ship, ask yourself a few key questions:

  • Where do you want to go?
  • What kind of atmosphere do you enjoy—a lively party vibe or a quiet getaway?
  • Do you thrive in big crowds or prefer smaller, more intimate groups?

Your answers will point you toward the right size ship.

The Smallest: River Cruises

River cruising takes you along the rivers of Europe and beyond on much smaller ships, typically carrying around 200 passengers. These cruises offer an intimate experience that brings you up close and personal with your destinations.

Ships often dock right in the middle of town, within walking distance of major points of interest. You’ll also get to know your fellow passengers well, whether you’re dining together or chatting during all-inclusive shore excursions.

River cruises tend to be pricier and usually attract a more mature traveler. They focus on local experiences—wine tastings, regionally sourced meals, and cultural entertainment. Most river cruises are nearly all-inclusive, covering beer, wine, sodas, and many excursions— something we absolutely love about them.

The Mid-Size Ships

When my husband and I first started cruising, we sailed on ships carrying 2,000–3,000 passengers. Our first cruise was on Norwegian Cruise Line’s Jewel, which hosts about 2,400 guests.

For a mainstream cruise, this size ship is our sweet spot. We enjoy the flexibility of eating when and where we want, catching a show after dinner, and finding quieter areas of the ship that sometimes feel almost private.

Mid-size ships offer plenty to do without feeling overwhelming—and for us, that balance is just right.

The Monster Ships

Modern cruise ships are floating cities. The newest ships sailing today can carry up to 7,600 passengers.

Having cruised on ships with around 4,000 passengers, we’ve learned that on larger ships, planning ahead becomes essential. You’ll likely want reservations booked before you board for:

  • Specialty dining
  • Main dining room prime times
  • Popular entertainment
  • Shore excursions

At this scale, lines can also become a factor—especially when disembarking in port.

That said, monster ships aren’t bad. Not at all. They offer a lot—from endless dining options to jaw-dropping entertainment and activities you won’t find on smaller ships.

What We’ve Learned as Veteran Cruisers

Over time, we’ve learned that sometimes our cruise choice revolves around the destination, while for other trips, it’s all about the ship.

For example, we don’t mind visiting Aruba, Curaçao, and Bonaire again and again—but sailing on a new ship can add an entirely new layer to the experience.

While we’re curious about the monster ships, we tend to prefer smaller ones. We value relaxing, peaceful vacations and aren’t thrilled by long lines, massive crowds, or trying to decide which restaurant to book months before we even sail. So much for “freestyle” cruising!

No Matter What You Choose

Do your research and lean into the cruise you book. Learn as you go, stay flexible, and most importantly—have fun.

If you’re unsure, ask a friend who cruises or work with a travel agent who can help guide you. There’s no wrong choice—just different experiences.

Bon Voyage!

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Hi! I’m Christina. "Let's Just Go" is my philosophy when it comes to my love of travel and from that philosophy, my travel blog, "Let's Just Go," was born! I love to talk about travel, research and plan for future trips, and share travel tips that I've learned along the way. Join me and let's just go!

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